Divorce is a legal procedure to formally end a marriage. It is a court proceeding that officially separates two people and dissolves any financial ties or responsibilties between those two people.
No. Texas adopted a no-fault divorce statute in 1975 which allows either spouse to request a divorce on the grounds of insupportability. Insupportability is a legal word that means the spouses simply don't wish to remain married; it does not mean that one person has done something wrong or failed at marriage. Prior to 1975, a person seeking a divorce had to prove that the other spouse had been unfaithful, was mentally diseased, committed a crime, or some other serious problem. After 1975, the only evidence needed to seek a divorce is a sworn statement by one spouse that they no longer wish to be married.
You must file a Petition for Dissolution (fancy name for divorce request form) with the County Clerk's office in the county where you currently live. You must have a copy of the Petition delivered to your spouse. Your spouse should then file an answer to your request. Their answer can be as simple as "Yes." The court will then ask you and your spouse to decide how any assets or debts acquired during the marriage will be divided. If you cannot agree on a division of items, you can request that the Court decide for you both. After the assets and debts have been divided, the court will sign an Order of Dissolution and formally end your marriage. You are eligible to remarry the following day.
1. Original Petition for Divorce - This is the form that notifies the Court and your spouse that you wish to get divorced.
2. Answer to Original Petition - This is the form that notifies the Court and your spouse that you recieved a copy of thier Original Petition and understand they want to get divorced. It is not an agreement or a denial - it is simply an acknoweledgement to the Court that you understand you spouse wants a divorce.
3. Final Order of Divorce - This is the final form used by the Court to officially divorce you and your spouse. It can also order that one spouse's name be changed to a maiden name or new name.
The Texas Supreme Court has created a packet with instructions and all of the forms necessary to file an uncontested divorce, with no children and no titled land. Download it by clicking HERE.
Yes. Couples that do not legally end their marriage continue to be responsible for one another and to have rights regarding their spouses's finances and health decisions. This can adversely affect one spouse, even if they haven't spoken to the other person in years.
Example: Jack & Jill get married and buy a home. Jill grows unhappy and decides to leave Jack. Both Jack and Jill work hard but have little money. They do not think that they can afford an attorney and so they just agree to break up. Jack keeps the hosue and Jill moves away to begin a new life. Jack's financial sitauation does not improve and he begins to miss mortgage payments on the house. 3 years pass without them legally divorcing or speaking to one another. Jill applies for a car loan and is denied becuase of bad credit. She learns that Jack hasn't paid the mortgage payment in six months and the bank is foreclosing on the house. Jill's name is still on the loan for the house which makes her responsible for those six months of unpaid payments.
No. The only way to get divorced is with a court order. While you can create a legally recognized common law marriage. there is no similar method for divorcing. Living apart, even for many years, does not legally end a marriage and is not a defense to credit collectors.
The hardest part of a divorce can be determing who gets to keep the furniture, who pays off the credit card bills, and what to do with family pictures. There is no legal requirement that a couple split their assets and debts equally. A couple is free to decide between themselves who gets what in a divorce. If a couple cannot decide how to divide up their property, a Court will make the decision for them. Texas is a community property state which means that any assets or debts created by either spouse during the marriage are shared equally between both people. Courts generally give the wife 50% of any assets and debts and the husband the other 50% of any assets or debts. If the debts are larger than any assets, a Court can order the assets sold to help pay off some of the marriage debts.
Example: Jack & Jill wish to divorce. They do not hate one another and do not wish to see the other person suffer needlessly. Jack earns twice what Jill earns. Jack agrees to pay off the credit card bills and car loan for Jill. Jill agrees to let Jack sell the house and keep any money made from the sale.
Example: Maria & John married when they were young. John earns a good salary at his job and Maria stays home with their daughter. John soon learns that Maria is not financially savvy and often spends too much money while shopping. He discovered that she maxxed out all of their credit cards and has created $8000 in debt. John cancels the cards but discovers that Maria has opened up new credit cards at several stores. Those credit cards are also maxxed out. John decides to leave Maria and files a petition for divorce. Maria wants to split the credit card bills equally with John. John disagrees. A court hears testimony from both sides about how, when, and why the credit cards debts were created. The Court decides that Maria intentionally hid the bills from John and lied to him about how much shopping she was doing. The court awards John primary custody of their daughter, gives Maria a standard visitation agreement, and makes her responsible for 75% of the credit card bills.
No. Texas does not criminalize people for becoming pregnant before turning 18.
Yes. If the pregnancy resulted from rape or incest, the perpetrator (the rapist or incestuous older person) could be arrested and charged with a crime. Texas laws do not prohibit anyone from getting pregnant so long as both parties were 17 years old or within 3 years of each other's age, and not immediately related. Immediate relations include parents, siblings, aunts/uncles, children, and first cousins.
Example: It is legal for a 50 year old man and an unrelated 25 year old woman to get pregnant.
Example: It is legal for a 15 year old and an unrelated 16 year old to sleep together and get pregnant.
Example: It is ILLEGAL for a 20 year old to sleep with or impregate an unrelated 16 year old person. Too much age difference with underage person.
Example: It is ILLEGAL for a 30 year old woman to get pregant by sleeping with her 25 year old nephew. Incest.
No. A woman is free to decide what actions she wishes to take during her pregnancy.
No. Texas laws continue to change and develop but a woman still has the right to decide whether or not to terminate her pregnancy, so long as she makes that decicision within the first 20 weeks of her pregnancy. The manner and method by which she can obtain a pregnancy also continue to change in Texas and she may have no choice except a surgical procedure. Current Texas law requires a woman to undergo an ultrasound and wait 24 hours before obtaining an abortion.
No. Texas laws continue to change and develop but a woman still has the right to decide whether or not to terminate her pregnancy.
Maybe. It depends on whether or not the father has been recognized as the legal father. (See below for info about legal vs. biological father.) If the child's legal father has been established, the father must end his legal relationship in order for an adotpion to take place. If no legal father has been recognized, the mother or possessory conservator may relinquish custody and put the child up for adoption.
No. A father's duty to support his offspring does not arise until legal paternity has been established. For married couples, Texas law assumes the husband is the father and puts his name on the birth certificate. If a child is born to an unmarried mother, the biological father will not become the legal father until both parents submit an Acknowledgment of Paternity (AOP) to the Bureau of Vital Statistics. An unmarried father must submit this form before he can apply for visitation rights.
Anyone who believes or suspects that a child is not their biological offspring may request a paternity test. There is NO CHARGE for a paternity test. For more information, contact the Texas Attorney General's Paternity Opportunity Program at (866) 255-2006.
The biological father is the person who donated their sperm. The legal father is the person reponsible for supporting the child financially.
No. The right to visitation and the right to pay child support are two separate legal issues. The inability or unwillingness of one parent to pay support does not prevent that same parent from being able to visit and/or communicate with their child. Texas law recognizes that a parent may strongly desire to visit their child and take an active role in the child's life, but be unable to meet monthly child support obligations due to unemployment, disability, or illness. Likewise, even a parent who is rightfully frustrated by a lack of financial support cannot seek revenge by refusing to let the non-paying parent visit the children.
Texas law makes a strong distinction between visitation rights and financial support obligations. A parent's right to visit with their child is rarely affected by their financial situation. A parent that has been court ordered to pay support and consistently refuses to pay could be sanctioned by the court and ordered to serve time in jail. However, that same court may also require the custodial parent to arrange for visits to the other parent while in jail. The general idea is to keep children in contact with their parents in every situation except those that may physically or emotionally harm the child. Thougt is not ideal for a child to visit their parent in a supervised lockup, it may still be less harmful than preventing that child from seeing their parent entirely. A parent who refuses to let their children visit with the non-paying parent risks losing custody and having to pay court sanctions for failing to abide by the court's orders.
Custody is the legal term for having the right to make decisions about your children. All parents can have their custody rights limited by a divorce order. Texas does not use the terms "full custody" and "joint custody" to describe divorced parents. Instead, Texas calls each parent a "joint managing conservator" and one parent is designated as having the right to determine primary residence. This parent is known as the "primary managing conservator". In situations where only one parent is alive or acknowledged, the term used is "sole managing conservator." The basic idea is that each parent has the same right to make decisions for the child but one parent (the primary managing conservator) also gets to decide where that child will live and sleep most nights.
Parents are free to come up with any visitation agreement that they want. The state of Texas and court sytem will only get invovled if both parents disagree on a visitation plan. Assuming that both parents are decent and non-abusive, the state of Texas will likley impose it's Standard Possession Order, as written in Ch. 153.3 of the Texas Family Code. There are about two standard orders - one order for families that reside within 100 miles of one another and another for families that live more than 100 miles apart. The SPO for people within 100 miles generally gives the possessory parent (i.e. the parent who the kids don't live with most) the right to visit their child every other weekend from 6pm Friday until 6pm Sunday, every Thursday evening from 6pm-8pm, two weeks in the summer, the week of Spring break in odd numbered years, and at least 2 hours on the child's birthday every year. Major holidays alternate between parents each year with one parent getting Thanksgiving and one parent getting Christmas. The respective parent has the right to visit the children every year on Mother and Father's days. Example: Dad gets children for Christmas in even years and for Thanksgiving in odd years.
No. A person cannot be forced to visit or communicate with their offspring. However, a parent has an obligation to support their children and that parent can be forced to pay child support for a child even if they've never met or spoken. It is legally possible for someone to pay child support for 18 years and never communicate with the child benefitted by the support. While a parent may be required to respond to a state agency or school official about their children's welfare, that parent is not obligated to respond to the child's calls or communications.
Example: Ellen, the non-possessory parent, pays child support every month. Ellen must respond to requests from the Attorney General about late support payments. Ellen does not have to answer her child's emails asking where Ellen has gone.
No. There is no law that requires children over the age of 18 to keep in contact with their parents. In fact, you could be charged with harassment if your child has made it clear that they do not wish to speak with you and you continue to contact them. However, if that parent is also responsible for helping you out financially and you refuse to call them back, you may find out that you can't call anyone because your parent stopped paying your cell phone bill.
It is money and financial support paid to cover the normal costs and expenses of raising a child. A Texas court may order a parent to support his or her child until the child turns 18 years-old, or graduates from high school (whichever occurs later), or until the child marries or dies, or is emancipated (declared an adult) by court order. If the child is disabled, the court may order a parent to financially support the child indefinitely.
The possessory parent usually pays support each month to the primary managing conservator. In basic terms, the parent with weekend visits must pay support to the parent with whom the child lives most often.
There is no maximum amount of support that a parent can pay to support their child. Parents are free to decide how much support is needed, who pays for what, when those payments are made, and to whom the payments are given. If parents cannot or do not make a child support agreement, either parent can ask the state of Texas to determine how much support is needed. Texas has developed a mathematical formula to calculate child support and it looks at a person's total monthly earnings, personal medical costs, and tax obligations. For detailed information about calculating support and an online calculator, visit the Texas Attorney General's website @ https://www.oag.state.tx.us/cs/
The Texas Attorney General assists parents seeking child support payments from Texas residents. Any parent with a child support court order can hire the Texas Attorney General to collect those child support payments each monthy by locating the absentee parent, contacting that parent's employer, and garnishing the wages of that parent. These support services are provided by Federal law and are often provided at no cost to you. The Attorney General's office also runs a child support evaders program that helps locate and bring to justice delinquent parents.
No. A common misconception of divorce and child custody is that one parent, usually the mother, gets everything she wants in court and the father gets stuck paying bills. A court will award custody to the parent that is most capable and that wishes to have primary custody. A court will look at each parent's ability to financially, emotionally, and physically support the child. A single father who works full time, is emotionally stable, and has a secure home would be awarded primary custody over a mother who is unemployed, living with friends, and dealing with depression. The mother can be ordered to pay child support to the father.
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Texas Family Code § 71.004 defines family violence as an assault or threatening crime that occurs between people related by blood/marriage, people who reside together, and/or people involved in a romantic relationship. It is not always necessary to have a marital or blood relationship with someone for it to be considered domestic violence.
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A protective order is a civil court order issued to prevent continuing acts of family violence. A restraining order is issued by a judge in a divorce trial to prevent one spouse from selling or disposing of certain items (ex: prevent one spouse from selling other spouse's comic book collection). A protective order is used to protect someone against future violence; a restraining order is used to protect someone from losing property in a divorce.
In order to get a protective order, you must prove that an act of violence against you has occurred and that you reasonably fear it will happen again. For detailed information about obtaining and enforcing a protective order, please visit the Texas Attorney General's website @ https://www.oag.state.tx.us/victims/protective.shtml. You may also call the Attorney for Students @512-245-2370 to schedule a free confidential appointment to talk about your rights and options.
Chapter 261 of the Texas Family Code defines childe abuse as any act or omission that endangers or impairs a child’s physical, mental or emotional health and development. This law includes both mental and physical abuse, but excludes reasonable discipline methods by parents or guardians. The reasonableness of any particular method is decided on a case by case basis. There are also assault laws found in the Texas Penal Code that require enhanced punishment if the victim was a child.
The Texas Department of Family and Protective Services (DFPS) has a nationwide 24 hour phone line and website to take abuse reports. Call 1-800-252-5400 to confidentially report suspected abuse 24 hours a day, seven days a week. You can also report suspected abuse online @ https://www.txabusehotline.org/ and receive a response within 24 hours.
If you are concerned about a child's immediate safety or welfare, you can always call 911.
Common Terms & Definitions - The legal world of estate planning and will drafting is filled with strange sounding names and terms. This is a short list of basic terms to help you get started understanding your own estate plans or the plans left by a family member.
In its most basic form, a will is simply a piece of paper with written instructions about how a person wishes their property to be distributed when they die. It can be as simple or as complex as a person wishes it to be. It is not always necessary to have an attorney draft your will, however most online do-it-yourself will kits are not legal in Texas because they lack critical elements. It is always safest to check with a lawyer and make certain that your final wishes are in place.
In addition to disposing of your possessions, a will can be a final message to family and friends, and can notify loved ones of other assets that may exist like life insurance. Without a will, your family may be forced to spend hundreds of dollars changing the name on a car title or bank account.
Probate is the name given to describe the legal process of having a Will recognized by a court and powers bestowed upon the Executor of the Will. The Executor is a person named by the deceased to carry out the terms of hte will; it is usually a spouse or family member, but does not have to be. The Executor is responsible for filing the Will in Court to start probate, asking for a letter of authority from the Court, transferring property and car titles to the heirs, paying any funeral expenses, and distributing any cash or personal possessions to the heirs.
If a person dies without leaving a will, they are said to have died intestate. If they were married and had no children by another person, their spouse inherits everything. If, however, the deceased had a child by another marriage, the remaining spouse and that child inherit EQUALLY. This can have very serious consequences for non-traditional families. Example: Tom has a son from his first marriage. Tom remarried and has three chldren with his spouse. Tom dies without leaving a Will. Tom's spouse and three children inherit EQUALLY to his son from his first marriage. His wife and three children will get 50% of Tom's assets and his son will get the other 50%. It does not matter if Tom hasn't spoken to that son in decades or if that son has refused to have anything to do with Tom. Without a Will, the Texas intestate laws will apply and Tom's property will be evenly divided.
Also known as a "Directive to Physicians", a living will indicates to hospital workers and loved ones what decision to make if you are on life support. There are two basic decisions: 1) what do you want done if your body systems are functioning but your brain may not be and 2) what do you want done if your brain may be functioning but your body cannot support itself without constant care.